Wednesday, October 26, 2011

How to help without getting in the way

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Like a few people I know, I've got a feeling lately that I could be doing this whole "charmed life in the developed world" thing a lot better. Sure, I donate to charity and not for profits, I pick up my litter, and I try to smile at strangers, but surely there is more I could do (that's sarcasm, people!).

I am incredibly lucky. I estimate that I'm probably among the top 5% of the world's most fortunate people. I live in a country that provides me with a level of free (or close to free) medical care, clean water whenever I want it, and oh the food! I have access to food from around the world whenever I want it. From my home, I can easily walk to at least 2 grocery stores and a number of cafes and restaurants. These places never run out off food and offer meals at a price I can afford. I enjoy a general level of safety and political security. I have the right to free speech and to protest, to vote, and to work and live in a manner of my choosing (given some sensible parameters). I have an excellent post graduate education that cost me a fraction of the cost of a new car and my government gave me an interest free loan which is paid through my tax only when I am employed above a certain salary level. I have a job that I love dearly; it allows me to make small but noticeable differences in people's lives every day. It pays me enough to feel comfortable in my community without getting too cocky. Most importantly, I am surrounded by people who love and support me and we have regular opportunities to be in each other's company.

You see, I'm pretty lucky. You might be pretty lucky too- either in similar or other ways. And when I think about how lucky I am, I can't help thinking about the people who are living very different lives to me. I guess I'm feeling completely inadequate and incompetent when it comes to assisting those who need it most in the ways that will help the most.

But this is not about guilt. While guilt has been a tool of choice for some organizations, I'm not interested in guilt trips. Guilt will motivate someone to donate a few dollars for some relief from that nagging feeling. Guilt is good for creating a short term fix. Guilt will not engage the heart end the mind. Guilt will not help empower people to do what they can with what they have. In fact, guilt has the potential to make us lose hope; to think that the problem is too big, or too distant.

I'm hoping to make lasting changes in my everyday life that will make a difference to the way that my actions impact on and contribute to the lives of others. This isn't about donations, which might be forgotten or inconsistently made. This isn't about one two week trip to Africa to build a school, and I'll explain why later. This isn't about creating a new organization; there are plenty of good organizations out there, the world probably doesn't need a new one. This is about supporting and joining groups that move beyond charity, who offer long term solutions that are context sensitive.

Let the journey begin!

Tuesday, August 30, 2011

Red Shield Appeal - quick crochet project

I just made this little cutie. I love a project I can complete in one night.

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It is part of the Salvation Army's latest fundraising drive. If you'd like the pattern, make sure you go to the Salvo's webpage and make a donation!

Monday, August 29, 2011

Pillow case tops

I've been mucking around with pillowcases from thrift/op shops lately. My fascination with pillowcases partly comes from the fact that they are normally one of the cheapest items in the shops and so make for cheap fabric while I'm working out my sewing skills. Also, I've been using them because I'm really keen to reduce my own waste by buying and using recycled goods.  Sewing and crafts can actually be very wasteful hobbies when you think about it -so I'm trying to do my bit. Here's two of my creations. I finished them early Saturday and wore each of them for a day this weekend.

What do you think? Can I get away with these in public?

I have to credit these sources for providing guidence/ideas/inspiration:

recycled-fashion.com

newdressaday.com

little green dresses by Tina Sparkles

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Monday, August 22, 2011

My other creations :)

Making a lot of earrings at the moment...next I think I'll have a go at rings!

These photos aren't great but you get the idea.

Byron Bay!

Here's some quick pics of a weekend spent in Byron and Northern New South Wales.

Down at the beach.

 

 

On the way to Alstonville...

 

The Rous bonfire - the annual fundraising event for the Rous school. We were about a kilometer from it when we started to see the light. I thought they'd accidently set the whole school on fire. It was huge! The photos don't to it justice.

What I've been up to...

Craft has occupied a lot fo my spare time at the moment. I haven't had a lot of it...but I've spent the time I do have making things with my own hands.

I've almost finished the Crepe dress from Colette patterns!

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I've also been making earrings - here's my latest effort - yellow roses!

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I've been cooking mexican and my own version of a Vietnames salad (with pumpkin - yum!).

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I've learnt to crochet....I'm working on two blankets at the moment. Here's a sneak preview of one.

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Saturday, July 16, 2011

Computer very ill

My personal computer has started to die a slow painful death. I can't seem to get it started anymore. That's a bit of a shame as I had some cool pics ready for a few posts. I'll keep trying and see if I can continue my soap story/ sewing the crepe dress/ and a few other things I had planned.

Keep your fingers crossed!